Esther Perel (Love & Sex Expert): Why Men Love Porn More Than Their Partner! It's Time To Enjoy Sex Again! The Real Reason Men & Women Cheat!

If you enjoyed this video, I recommend you check out my conversation with dating expert Logan Ury, which you can find here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ow3ao6YsCgQ Why do people have affairs in happy relationships? Why does sex decline in some long term relationships and not others? Esther Perel is here to answer all of the biggest questions in sex and relationships. Esther Perel is a world-leading Belgian-American psychotherapist and relationship expert, best known for her work in human relationships and ‘erotic intelligence’. She is the New York Times best-selling author of, ‘Mating in Captivity’ and ‘The State of Affairs’, as well as the host of the podcast, ‘Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel’. In this conversation Esther and Steven discuss topics, such as: Why the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships How we discover ourselves in the presence of other people The ways that childhood impact your relationships Independence vs interdependence The negative impact of phones on relationships Why to change someone else you have to change yourself How to know when a relationship has died Why falling out of love doesn’t exist The ways that leadership is a relationship How to have better fights in a relationship The 3 things people fight for in relationships The power of eroticism Why you need to be able to tolerate uncertainty How the idea of the soulmate has changed Why sex has become measurable The reason you cannot solve relationships The difference between genders in communication How the meaning of sex changes through time What does it mean when a woman doesn’t have desire The appeal of porn Why couples stop having sex The reasons people cheat Why people have affairs in happy marriages How affairs are about feeling alive The moments when people are most attracted to their partner Follow Esther: Instagram: https://bit.ly/3Gx63qy Twitter: https://bit.ly/3T7vN4k Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now: https://smarturl.it/DOACbook Follow me: Instagram: http://bit.ly/3nIkGAZ Twitter: http://bit.ly/3ztHuHm Linkedin: https://bit.ly/41Fl95Q Telegram: http://bit.ly/3nJYxST Sponsors: Huel: https://g2ul0.app.link/G4RjcdKNKsb Eight Sleep: https://www.eightsleep.com/uk/steven/ CODE: STEVEN (save $150 on the Pod Cover) ZOE: http://joinzoe.com with an exclusive code CEO50 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices